Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Troubled Marriage and Astrology ( Vaivaahik Samasya aur Jyotish)

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Marriage is a union of two compatible souls for life. But many a times when there is a lack of compatibility between the two, marriage could end up in divorce. 

Is there any way we can foresee divorce in a marriage? 

The answer is "Yes". Vedic astrology gives us good no. of tools to predict whether the marriage will be successful or not. In this post I am going to touch the aspect of a troubled marriage at a high level but in future posts, I will go in detail of this aspect. I have therefore made "Marriage" as a separate category on my blog.

For a successful marriage following are the three main players:
  • Venus, the karaka of marriage and sexuality
  • 7th house, which represents wife, marraige, marital relations etc.
  • 7th house lord
Though there are many other factors which affect marriage like 2nd house, navamsa but we will not look at those aspects in this post.
As a basic rule if the above three players are in good condition, having aspects from benefics or occupied by benefics, we can predict that the marriage is going to be successful else the opposite. 

Let's see it in action in the following kundli of Eleanor Holm who was an American swimmer and an Olympic champion. She got married in Shani-Rahu dasha and got divorced in Mercury-Mercury dasha. She has partial kalsarpadosha in her kundli on 1st and 7th house which would mean that she was going to have troubles in her marital life. Let's look at the other three players which we mentioned above.

Venus: is the lord of 3rd and 8th two malefic houses and placed in 10th house along with his enemy Jupiter, the lagnesh. It's fair in power. Though Venus is in Sun's nakshatra which is the lord of 6th house which is the house of enemy. So, it creates enmity between the partners.

7th House: It is occupied by the malefic Ketu and getting aspect from Rahu, another malefic. In navamsa, the 7th house is being aspected by Mars and occupied by Sun two malefics. All these combinations are making the 7th house weak.

7th Lord: 7th lord in Rashi chart is Mercury which is placed in 9th house in trikone position which is a good position. It is being aspected by the malefic Rahu and it is placed with another malefic Sun which is the lord of 6th house, house of enemy, again creating enmity between partners. Mercury is also being aspected by malefic Shani which is the lord of 11th house, the house of gain, and the 12th house, house of expenditure. Expenditure could be of marital bliss so it may mean gains through divorce. That's what happened when she got divorced. She got 200,000 dollars in alimony which was a record at that time.

So we can see how the above three players play an important role in one's marriage.




55 comments:

  1. i have mars satrun conjuction in my 7th house of LIBRA im pices acs and my sun is alos weak its in 4th house of cancer with rahu there :( moon in 11t house of aqu ... life is so tough for me ... im 30 years now 10th july 1982 karachi pakistan .. 23:30 pm is my birth details .. is there any sign of divorce ??? im still un maried love someone im with him since 9 years :(( plzz tell me that in all my life i will be unlucky in relationship :(( ..har bar lagta hai bura wakt khataum hojayega jab shadi hojayegi per aab to lagta hai k shadi k baad or bhi sab kharabhojayega life main or life shayed isse bhi buri hojayegi ..:((

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    1. Dear Maishi Ji

      Saturn mars combination in 7th house is not good but it doesn't necessarily indicate a divorce. You have sun and rahu combination in 4th house which is bringing negativity in your mind. Moon which also represents emotions is in 12th house. Here are few remedies for you:

      1) Wear a pearl in silver in right hand pink finger on shukla paksha Monday(when the moon is waxing) after reciting Om Cham Chandraaye Namaha for 108 times.
      2)Keep some rain water at a safe place in the house.
      3)Donate chanaa daal wrapped in a yellow cloth in a religious place for seven thursdays continuously.

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  2. I have a troubled marriage. My birth details are
    Birth Date:- 19th January 1980
    Birth Place - Ahmadnagar (Maharashtra), India
    Birth Time - 10:10 am
    Is there any sign of divorce?

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    1. Your horoscope has clear indications of troubled married life. You should fast on all Fridays, feed cow on Fridays. Time till August is not good but after that there may be some improvements. So have patience.
      Every morning worship lord shiva and recite Om Namaha Shivaaye as many times as you can with complete devotion and concentration.

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  3. I was separted but am back with my wife. Will my marriage work.

    Date of birth is 23 march 1977 08:50am

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    1. Place of birth is England, Leicestershire

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    2. Start your life with a positive mind set. Everything will be alright. Your next dasha which is starting from December is very good for your marital life so just be positive and give lots of love to your wife. God has again made you come together and this is for a good reason.
      Keep fasts on Thursdays. It will be good for marital life.

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  4. Seperated, will we work it out. Birthday 8/24/1986 place of birth warrenton, va at 632 pm

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    1. There is a chance after November this year till Sep 2014. If you can fast on Tuesdays, it will be good from marital life perspective.

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  5. Hi Gourav, i got married on 9th of last december. I was in the affair with him from 2008. We had faced so much of ups and downs and so many times we felt to break the relationship even we had big problem regarding the marriage also. Sometime we feel two bodies 1 sole but some times we feel entirely different. There is no doubt regarding the love aspect, but i am very much confused how our marriage life will work! I don't want to loose him. My DOB-28th march 1989. time-8.01am. Place of birth - Howrah, west bengal, india. Husband's Dob-28th february 1983. Place of birth - Durgapur, west bengal, india. Time-12.15pm.

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    1. Your dashas are to be blamed for this. Keep fast on Mondays. This is the best remedy for you. APart from this feed cows whenever possible.

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  6. Hi, My DOB is 10.01.1985 Time - 2:10 am. Place - Bangalore.
    My Husband's DOB is 13.11.1983 Time - 04:57 am. Place - Hindupur.

    Our's was a Love marriage. We got married on 5th Nov 2009. Since 1 yr my husband has changed and is insisting for a separation. Kindly suggest...

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    1. 1)Fast on every Thursday.
      2)Recite "Om Sham Shanishcharaaye Namaha" every morning for 108 times.
      3)Offer water to surya as per this post http://lalkitabkundli.blogspot.in/2012/12/importance-and-procedure-of-giving.html

      Do the above remedies with complete faith and dedication. You will be benefitted.

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    2. Thank u so much... Also, is there a divorce in our horoscope..?

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  7. Hi sir iam bhawanne my date of birth 23 august 1988 9:45 am and place vijayawada andhrapradesh..sir pls tel me that how is my life and getting trouble in marriage..when will i get married...is good spouse will come to me..?pls rply sir

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    1. Please send me an email at jyotishremedy@gmail.com

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  8. Hi Gouravji, My DOB is 9TH NOV1984 2.30PM and place karanjia,orissa and my husband,s DOB is 20th october1980 5.30am place calcutta...Gouravji my husband want divorce from me and we are separated since 2 months...plz get me way to save my marriage....plz hlp

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    1. Fast on all wednesdays.
      Recite the following mantra as many times as you can everyday. Remember your husband in mind while reciting this mantra.

      Krishna Krishna mahayogi,bhakta nama bhayankara
      Govindam paramanandam, patim me vashmanaya

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  9. Dear Guarov:
    My birth day is 21 January 1977, in Iran-Tehran, At 12.30Pm.
    Kindly please let me know that how can i have a happy marriage?
    thank you
    Nasim

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    1. Eat your food while sitting in the kitchen when the stove is still being used for cooking.

      Fast on Fridays.

      Donate soap, mustard oil in a religious place for 7 Saturdays continuously

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  10. Hi My DOB is 14-02-1988 and Birth time is 11:23am Place Shimla nd my fiance DOB is 14-03-1987 and Birthtime is 4:15pm Place is Ludhiana.

    I want to know about my married compatibility with him nd how my married life? About Child and relation with inlaws also? Plz help

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    1. Waiting For your reply Gaurav ji...

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    2. Marital life will not be very smooth. Difference of opinion may arise. You need to be patient and tolerant. Feed green leaves to a cow on Wednesdays and Fridays for marital happiness.

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  11. hello my dob-7 oct 1985 time-1.50 pm place-delhi
    i want to know abt by married life...many pandits have said i will have a distrubed married lifen also i'll have problems with by in laws...pls advice whether its true...if yes what remedy can be done..pls hep

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    1. Period till Dec 2015 is not good from marital perspective but after that it's better because Jupiter dasha will start. Fasting on Saturdays will bring good results in marriage.

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    2. thnx for ur reply sir...just want to re confirm dat it just means dat there will be some problem initially then things will be ok...its not dat my complete married life will be troublesome...someone said dat there r chances of divorse also so i m bit worried

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    3. Keep fasting on Saturdays as suggested above which is the best remedy for marital happiness. Apart from that feed green leaves to cow on Wednesdays and Fridays. Above all, have faith in yourself that you have the ability to be successful in your marital life.

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  12. Hi Gaurav Ji Namaste, My Name is Jatinder Singh, Date of Birth 20-FEB-1988, TIME OF BIRTH:- 7:00AM, PLACE OF BIRTH: PGI CHANDIGARH. I got married on 3-FEB-2013 but i am facing many problems in my married life. My baby has dead. Total Pregnancy time was 3 months but my baby lived till 2 months and 2 days. Also my wife go more in her maternal family. She spend 1 month in my house and after that she go in house of her maternal family and she spend 1, 2 or 3 weeks. My father don't like her this thing and by this some time happens more dispute in my house. So please tell me any good remedy so our married life will be happy. My wife Name Kulvinder Kaur, Date of Birth: 17- September- 1986, TIME OF BIRTH: 8:00PM, PLACE OF BIRTH: Vill CHOTI BASSI which is near to NARAINGARH (HARYANA). Please also tell me our married life will be how? In kundli of my wife there is also present KAL SARAP DOSH, So please help me sir I will be very thankful to you.

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  13. Hello Sir,

    Please advise regarding my married life. Let me k now our future life together. Please guide me remedy/parihar for happy and peaceful married life.
    My details: DOB: 29/02/1976, place: mumbai, Time: 6:05pm
    husband's details: 18/03/1974, place: Pune, time: 11.30pm

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    1. Fasting on Wednesdays is the best remedy for you. Apart from this feed green leaves to cow on Wednesdays and Fridays.

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    2. Hello,

      Thank you so much for your guidance and kind help. Please tell me whether the above reply is for my post or previous post of risky boy.(My details: dob: 29/02/1976, place: Mumbai, time : 6:05pm )

      Husband's details: 18/03/1974, place: pune, Time: 11.30 pm
      please give me details about my husband's nature and life too and how he can control his anger.

      I got married very late and immediately after marraige, there were lots of fights. My husband gets very short tempered and is abusive. Currently, we are staying separately. Do you foresee both of us together in a happy married life or is there separation. Please give details the reasons behind separation and parihar. Thank you for help. God bless you.
      regards,
      KN

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  14. Dear Gaurav Ji,
    My DOB is 17/06/1973 & wife 4/04/1983, we are having very bad days, matter has gone up to the extent of separation, kindly suggest immediately.
    Thanks

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    1. Please share complete birth details. Place of birth, time of birth and date of birth.

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  15. hello sir my dob is 17/06/1985 tob is 03:35am and place is bhandara my marriage life is in very trouble plz help and kindly suggest upay for the same

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  16. Hello sir, my dob is 10.07.1982 TOB is 7:10a.m and place of birth is Lucknow (U.P) . there is opinion difference with my husband. How will be my married life?

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  17. Sir, here are my details, could you please tell about my married life-regarding my spouse and professional life ?

    DOB: 4th July 1986,
    Time: 6:50 PM
    Co-ordinates: 10.1167° N, 76.3500° E

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  18. Hi Gaurav,
    Me and my daughter r left by husband in the pre text of divorce which we both don't want and he has refused every chances of reconciliation. Infect he is like on the run from past 1 year.. and has even filed for divorce.. please suggest which puja i do and which gem i should wear my details are 29.3.1977, 5.10pm, Meerut and his is 21.7.1976, 4.26am, delhi.. please sir help..

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  19. Hi Gaurav,
    Could you please tell me about my marriage. Here are my details

    My DOB: 21-02-1980,
    Time : 20:26,
    Place of Birth: Annavaram, Andhra Pradesh, India

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  20. Hello Gaurav,

    Could you please tell about my marriage. DOB: 26.02.1979, Chennai, Time: 8:50 am ; wife's DOB: 30.04.1981, New Delhi, Time: 01:43 am

    Thanks in advance

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    1. Please email me at jyotishremedy@gmail.com

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  21. hello sir,
    i am getting a lot of trouble in my married life??? how to resolve them..
    date of birth; march 19,1988
    time: 12:17 pm
    place: delhi

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  22. hi sir my name is payal chopra and i have some question about my marriage
    1)when it will happen
    2)my married life
    3)any remedies that I can do
    my details are
    date of birth : 7th April 1982
    time of birth : 09:45 am
    place of birth : new delhi
    you can also email me your reply
    payalcool1982@gamil.com

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  23. namasty sir....my name is archana dob 9 jul 1984 birth place azamgarh birth time 2:20 pm and my husband name is rahul dob 3 march 1985 jalna maharashtra 10:20pm . ours is a love marriage..we meet in 2006 and married in 2012....we have a son...but i can see my hubby getting changed.....his behaviour now is totally contrast of b4...he ignores me and never shows intrest.. but i still love himm and will continue to do that...just help me....i want to save my marriage fir both of us and my son...i want my love back

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    1. Please send me an email at jyotishremedy@gmail.com

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  24. i am getting a lot of trouble in my married life??? how to resolve them..
    date of birth; Oct 13,1978
    time: 9:40 pm

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  25. SIR ,MY DOB IS 04/02/1984 (10.48pm) AT MURSHIDABAD ,WEST BENGAL.MY LIFE IS DEVASTATING NOT A GOOD JOB AND NOT GETTING MARRIED PARENTS TORTURE SUICIDAL THINKING WHAT TO DO

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    1. Your good time will start from Sep 2017. Wear an emerald and a 12 mukhi rudraksha to get good effects earlier.

      Please make sure that you buy unheated and untreated stones. Most of the stones are either heat treated or treated by other chemicals which reduces or completely destroys their astrological benefit hence they are of no use. So, always BUY them from a TRUSTED SELLER and if you don't know any trusted seller then you can also ORDER them from ME.

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  26. Troubled life. Troubled marriage... Dob : 24/12/1991
    Time: 07:45 am
    Tasgaon Maharashtra

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    1. http://www.theastrojunction.com/2014/10/remedy-for-marital-relationship-issues-with.html

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  27. career and married life issues..my dob is 15/5/1989..time: 00:59am
    kochi,kerala..pls go through and give some remedies.

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    1. 1) Fast on Fridays
      2) Feed a cow on Wednesdays and Fridays with green leaves
      3) Recite shani mantra daily morning for 108 times "Om Sham Shanish Charaaye Namaha"
      4) Recite Rahu mantra daily morning for 108 times "Om Ram Rahuve Namaha"
      5) Wear a piece of haldi in yellow thread around your neck on Thursday morning
      6) Do this remedy http://www.theastrojunction.com/2012/09/remedy-to-win-over-husband-pati-ka-man.html

      7) http://www.theastrojunction.com/2014/10/remedy-for-marital-relationship-issues-with.html

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  28. hi, i m heading for divorce and have been having a very bad mental health...how will be my future career and married life if there's any.
    DoB: 15 feb, 1990 03:58 AM
    Place of birth: Hyderabad
    Any remedies that i can perform for a good married life

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  29. Dear Gaurav ji. Me and wife got marriedon 4 Feb 2007. We also got a daughter the same year on 19-11-07. We like all other had some major ups and downs. But since April 2015 my wife wanted divorce. We made up but in Dec 15 she asked me that she's serious about divorce. I went in Jan 16 she wants a divorce. She does not talk to me nor does shewant the marriage. She even tells me that I should not touch her. I work in a tea garden in Assam got here in April 2015. Please suggest what is the future. My name is yuvraj Kamal Sachar born on 5 seep 1980 at 10 48 am in Patiala Punjab. My wife is Anahat Kaur Khehra born on 21 may 1979 at 8 30 pm in Patiala Punjab. Further to this mynwife was sharing her house in mohali with my mother in law ( who's again a divorce). But there is nothing of myngoods there. In fact all my pictures have been taken down from the walls and put somewhere. My wife even does not want to keep my clothes or anything to do with me in her house. I don't know what's happening. Please advice.

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    1. Plz send me an email at jyotishremedy@gmail.com

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